Position yourself

Hiya,

I have come across quite a number of people who present themselves as pity-party because they do not have a man / woman in their lives, should that be so? Should not being in a relationship be the end of the world? I don’t think so. While it feels fulfilling to have a partner in our lives, it doesn’t entirely guarantee happiness. Would you rather be in an abusive relationship just because you want to feel among your peers as the only one not left out in this dating game? The consequence of that decision will rest on you to deal with. Or the fact that no man/ woman is in your life at the moment now mean you go around looking depressed and unkempt , just going about the whole place like someone who is bereaved? In fact, when you are in this state, I can almost bet you that nobody will want to be associated with you, because even the guy / lady is also looking at getting someone to compliment him not someone who will always look up to him / her for their needs to be met.

Speak what you want to see....

Happy new year Good People,

My sincere apologies for MIA last week, was busy about with some Martha Martha things, shey you get?

 How was our new year celebration? Sure it was splendid, I can almost get your response with the grin on your face. It's good to know sha, at least another opportunity to spend some times with our loved ones, but come oo, I hope we didn't forget what we discussed the previous week. For those of us that didn't reach out to our partners during the Christmas, hope we eventually did during the new year, yeah, I trust you guys. Always bear in mind that it is more blessed to give than to receive. Don't always wait to receive, be the giver, even if it's just this time and mind you if you didn't give for the new year, it's not too late yet, you can give at anytime you so desire, not necessarily during special occasion, as a matter of fact, giving should be an attitude.