Success in Marriage is not by accident

Hello Peeps,

Success doesn't  happen automatically in all areas of our lives. It takes planning to achieve a very substantial level of success in whatever we do. Most times, we require knowledge to plan for success which is based on information available to us.

Effective Communication

Seun and Brenda have been married for two years. They both work in the bank. Often times it's after Brenda comes home late in the evening that she will rush into the kitchen to make dinner and put the living room together even though the husband might have been home some hours earlier. This usually makes her stay up till very late in the evening which makes her feel her husband is enslaving her.
 

Communication

Hello good people.

Trust we found last week's discussion helpful.

Today, we have a question here from one of our readers. She has been so worried and full of questions in her heart. Her story is shared below:

Jane and Kingsley have been married for about 7 years with 2 beautiful children. They met at a friend's wedding and became friends. Before long they started courting and got married 3 years later. The first few years of their marriage was rosy and Kingsley was able to provide all the needs at home even though Jane was also earning well in her organization.

Who can I marry?

Good morning Peeps,

As humans, we make decisions every time on everything and anything, and the decisions we make can either make or mar us. If we do not make the right decision on some issues, the consequences could live with us a lifetime causing pain, agony, resentment among other negatives.

As a matter of fact, our lives are products of decision making. We take decisions on career matters, where to live, where to work, who to relate with, where to eat, what to wear and who to spend the rest of our lives with are not excluded from this process. Marriage is a life time contract and you want to get it right from the beginning.

Often times, people say “I love him”. "I just can't do without her”. The truth is there is no one you cannot live without, but it's important to marry someone you can live with.

Can't I Marry him?

Happy new month Peeps,

I got this mail from a reader over the weekend. She needs our advice on a very crucial issue, please read and advise.

Dear Nurturing Relationships,

My name is Barbara. I'm currently a youth corp member serving in Warri. My sister Nene has been married for about 5 years and lives in Lagos with her husband.

I went to visit them when they had their first child about 4 years ago and stayed for close to 3 months courtesy of ASUU strike at the time. While I was there, my sister's brother in law – Dare also came around while he was waiting for his call-up letter.